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Welcome to Monroe Coaching where women come to authentically rebuild their lives after realizing that they either cannot or do not want to have children. I spent five years trying to have children only to be told that I would likely need to spend a minimum of another 2 years to see if things would work out. After thinking about not only the time investment but also the enormous money investment required for this venture, I started to imagine that perhaps I was being called to a different life. Slowly I began to realize that our lives are a blessing in and of themselves. We should never stop exploring our true calling in life, regardless of children. Of course children bring great joy and meaning to our lives, but they will eventually grow up and begin exploring their own passions and paths in life. Frankly, I believe that when parents constantly pursue dreams and goals of their own, their children are better equipped to identify their own dreams and goals as they grow and develop. Removing the element of spending so much time rearing little ones gives us time to come into our own and provide the world with the benefits of our gifts and talents. We get to finally show up 100%.
At Monroe Coaching you can explore what it really is that you want to do with your life now that you have this empty canvas in front of you. I can take you step by step to get to the destination of your choice. Want a new job? How about waking up every morning and looking forward to your work day? What about completely revamping where you live, what you do for a living and loving everything about your life? That is what Monroe Coaching is all about.
Sometimes this road before us can seem daunting, especially in a culture which often does not understand the decision against pursuing having children. We can very easily begin to develop limiting beliefs where our futures are concerned and get stalled in leading meaningful lives. Perhaps you stopped following a dream because it seemed unattainable. Or maybe there is a goal that you just cannot seem to figure out how to achieve. It’s time to stop thinking about what hasn’t worked out and start moving toward what your life without children means. Monroe Coaching helps with these situations and will walk the path with you until you get it right.
Coaching Methodology: The Prospect of JOY
In 2021 I published a book called “Holding On To Joy Through Abandonment and Divorce”. This book is 12 chapters which explore the lessons I learned from 2 life changes experiences I had. The first is what it was like to be abandoned by my father at a very young age. I talk about how that affected the way I handled the second life changing experience as an adult when I went through a near devastating divorce. In the end I realized that despite whatever circumstances we find ourselves in we can actually choose Joy.
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I’ve taken the 12 chapters from my book to create a method whereby we can seriously look at where to begin now that you find yourself on this new journey.
J – Where are you on your Journey? Without taking a serious look at this we cannot begin the life changing work that you need to do in order to create the life you’e always imagined. In this section I talk about expecting miracles, listening and believing in what you need to in order to create momentum and get you ready to begin.
O – What is your relationship like with Others? My grandfather had a saying: “Tell me who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are.” Who are you surrounding yourself with in your social network? Do you have any broken relationships? In this part of my program we take a good look at forgiveness, giving back and other life changing practices which will catapult your relationships to a new level. I believe we meet everyone either for a reason or a season. When we get an understanding of this we will find ourselves surrounded by people who we not only greatly admire, but people who are raging fans of our own dreams and goals.
Y – This section is all about You. Are you really being true to yourself? Do you have a habit of living with regret? Do you feel that you are in charge of your happiness or is happiness a fleeting feeling like a butterfly you continually chase? I’ve saved the best for last … a true look at the underpinnings of what drives you and how you can attract all the things in life that you’ve been trying to achieve.
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I can say that I follow Connie on her FB page and it has helped me get through some hurdles. I had a goal of moving to LA to pursue work in television and had put it off because of fear. Hearing her FB videos helped me to deal with that by the encouragement she provides to people in the same situation. I am now living in LA and even now the videos help me whenever I am feeling home sick or start dealing with self doubt. If she can do all of this through video, I can only imagine what she can do face to face. Her energy is contagious and best of all it’s REAL.
I am very fortunate to have had the opportunity to work with and to learn from Connie. Her positive approach to life is very contagious. This was helpful for me because it bolstered my confidence and eliminated the stress as I transitioned from college to my first job. I really enjoyed all the teaching moments and life lessons I have learned from Connie.